Testimonials · NJ First Dates

Real nights out, real connections.

Hear from New Jersey singles who took a chance on a five-minute date — and walked away with matches, second dates, and a genuinely good time.

In their own words

What Garden State singles are saying.

From first dates to lasting relationships, here’s what people love about a night out with NJ First Dates.

My first speed dating event and honestly the most fun I’ve had in ages. The host made everyone feel comfortable right away, and I ended up with three matches. Already have a coffee date lined up!

M Melissa, 31Hoboken, NJ

I’m a busy nurse and swiping apps just wore me out. Meeting 12 women face to face in one evening was a total breath of fresh air. Way more real than a month of texting.

D Devon, 38Jersey City, NJ

The five-minute format is genius — just long enough to tell if you click. The venue in Montclair was cozy and lively, and I matched with someone I’m seeing again this weekend.

P Priya, 29Montclair, NJ

Getting back out there after my divorce felt intimidating, but everyone was so friendly. I got my match results the next morning and couldn’t stop smiling. Thank you for making it easy.

R Robert, 52Morristown, NJ

My friend dragged me along and I’m so glad she did. The men-to-women ratio was even, so there was never any awkward standing around. We both left with matches!

A Ashley, 26Asbury Park, NJ

As someone who works late all week, a fun singles night close to home was exactly what I needed. Met a bunch of great people and one in particular I really hit it off with.

J James, 34Edison, NJ

I loved that you get to choose your own matches online afterward — no pressure in the moment. It made the whole night relaxed and actually enjoyable. Highly recommend.

C Christina, 43Princeton, NJ

Skeptical going in, sold coming out. The event ran smoothly, the crowd was down-to-earth, and I had my matches confirmed within a day. Already telling my coworkers about it.

M Marcus, 40New Brunswick, NJ

Such a fun way to spend a Thursday night at the shore. Great venue, great host, and I met someone I’ve now been dating for a couple of months. Couldn’t have asked for more.

L Lauren, 30Toms River, NJ
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