Meet quality Garden State singles the natural way — face to face. In one fun evening you’ll enjoy 10 to 15 five-minute mini-dates with other local singles, no endless swiping required.
Looking to meet quality New Jersey singles? NJ First Dates runs some of the liveliest speed dating events in the state, drawing locals from every corner of New Jersey who are ready to meet someone in person. With a buzzing bar-and-restaurant scene from the Hoboken and Jersey City waterfront outward, there’s never been an easier or more enjoyable way to connect with compatible NJ singles.
Our events draw driven, fun, relationship-minded people from all over the Garden State. From Hoboken to Jersey City, Newark to Montclair, you’ll meet singles who are serious about finding a real connection — part of the energetic community of young professionals that makes New Jersey nightlife so much fun.
Plan on about two hours at a hand-picked bar or lounge, often along the vibrant Hoboken or Jersey City waterfront. You’ll enjoy 10 to 15 five-minute mini-dates, with a relaxed break in the middle to grab a drink and mingle. It’s low-pressure and upbeat — everyone is there to meet people in their own age range. Come solo and you’ll fit right in, or bring a friend to make a night of it. No awkward setup, just easy conversation with fellow Jersey singles.
At each event you’ll have a series of mini-dates lasting about five to six minutes each — just enough time to feel a spark and see if there’s chemistry. Afterward, log into your account to select your matches. When two people choose each other, it’s a match, and we’ll share contact info so you can take it from there.
How much does an event cost? Most of our events run $35 to $45. That includes all of your mini-dates on the night, plus our online matching afterward, so you keep making connections once the evening wraps up.
What ages attend? Every event is organized by age band — like 20s to 30s or 30s to 40s — so you’ll always be meeting singles close to your own stage of life rather than a random mix.
Where in NJ are events held? We favor lively, easy-to-reach neighborhoods, with many evenings hosted along the Hoboken and Jersey City waterfront and other spots across the Garden State, chosen for their great atmosphere and convenient access.
With Hoboken’s storied bar scene, Jersey City’s booming waterfront, and a young-professional crowd that keeps the Garden State humming, New Jersey is a fantastic place to be single. Great food, walkable neighborhoods, and easy hops between towns make meeting someone feel effortless.
Check out our upcoming speed dating events across New Jersey and sign up today.
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