So why am I doing this again???

With very little time, how is it even possible to find true love, we ask ourselves.  Everyone deserves to be happy and live out a fulfilling life that they have always dreamed of, but how in the world can we do this if we are ALWAYS WORKING!!!!!?  How can we find that special person who fits the bill, makes us happy, enriches our lives and understands what it is like to have a demanding time consuming job while also trying to find some sort of productive dating life.   It can be a nightmare, trust us, we know!! You go out and you try new places in high hopes that maybe, just maybe you will find someone that you might click with.  If this sounds like you, listen up because I have an answer! TRY SPEED DATING!!!!  It is that easy.  Everyone at our events are here for a lot of the same reasons you are and are looking for exactly what you are looking for.  Youre not the only busy bee, WE ALL ARE!  So.. what do we do? what do we do? Hmmmm? LETS FIND THEM!!!! Find them or let them find you!!!  Take a proactive approach and make it your mission to get out there!  When it comes down it, dating is really nothing more than a numbers game and the only way to win it, is to be in it! Duh!! Double your odds!!!  No one should have to settle because they feel they do not have the time to invest in dating.  Invest in yourself and your precious time.  Think of it this way, how many people could you possibly spark up a conversation with in two hours and would you feel maybe a little awkward if 2 minutes into the conversation, you're no longer interested (whatsoever!).  So then what? Then it takes you about 40 more minutes to finally excuse yourself politely and carry on with your day/night (p.s. you just spent a total of 42 minutes talking to this person.. note to self)  Hm.. That doesn't sound very productive.  On the flip side, TRY SPEED DATING because I promise you, you will have much better results.  Up to 15 people in 2 hours.  About 3 to 5 minute dates depending on the size of the group.  You can't beat that.  No pressure, no uncomfortable or awkward early dismissals, no cheesy pick up lines and no time spent thinking of how to strike up a good conversation. We will tolerate none of that.  Here at NJFirstDates we value your time. Just come out and hang out, chit chat and see what's around. COMEEEE!!!!